There was an urgency to the South African Ekurhuleni Pride march last weekend in KwaThema. On Easter Sunday morning, Noxolo Nogwaza was found
raped and murdered in a township alley. The Ekurhuleni Pride Organising Committee (EPOC)
organised a march last month on the KwaThema police station to protest police inaction in Noxolo's case and others. The theme of this third annual Ekurhuleni Pride march was, "Crush Hate."
From Behind the Mask:
Sipiwe Nkabinde from the Ekurhuleni Pride Organising Committee, EPOC said, “It is very important to make people realise that gays and lesbians are here to stay and are also human beings.”
She praised the organising committee for a job well done and wished that there “were more people from outside who came to Kwa-Thema and to support the LGBTI community here.”
Sifiso Nkosi Miss Gay 2011 Ekurhuleni who also attended said, “Today is about pride, it’s about educating the local community and makes them understand that we are also part and parcel of human being, we are not different. It is also an event where we get to know each other and to socialise.”
Nkosi paid tribute to the local community saying, “This year is better compared to last years; more people are open and even straight people came and took part in our activities. It is all about spreading the word so South Africa can become a better country.”
However, Shwane Malebye, OUT LGBTI Play safe Campaigner was of the view that, “Too many people in Ekurhuleni are still closeted.”
He added, “I would love to see every one who is in the closet to come and attend this event. LGBTI people here must support this event because it is theirs. They are not giving us a push.”
Perspectives from the March
Behind the Mask
interviewed a number of the marchers.
Dikeledi Sibanda:
I am here because I wanted to raise awareness of the community and to let them know that I am not only here because I am gay, but I am here to raise my voice and say gay people exist and there is nothing anyone can do about that. Being here also gives us a chance to reach out to everyone, and that can influence change in our society. I do not want tolerance or acceptance, but I just want to be respected.
Thembi Masombuka:
Today is very important to me because I don’t go to taverns. But by being here I can be myself, enjoy myself and not risk being raped or attacked for being myself. I am also here because I am a lesbian, and this is where I can be myself freely.
Musa Ngubane:
I am standing here and I am seeing people. They are not many in number, but many in a cause. We live in a country that pushes us to be in closet, but being here shows that this is not possible. The reason why I am here is to also join the masses to share the message that we are not cowards and people must get on with it.
Thomas Sweleka:
I am here because I want to continue with Simon Nkoli’s struggle, and take over where he left off. I have been living in a closet for a while and this is my third pride, and the reason why I attend pride now is that, it’s where you are comfortable, and can be yourself and not be judged for your sexual orientation. The likes of Simon Nkoli fought for pride marches and we are fortunate today that we can actually celebrate pride. The significance of pride for me is the march. It’s where we can actually show the community that we are here and actually raise awareness.
Mambaonline took
photographs of the march.